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I will be posting blogs about some of the finer and interesting adventures that I've been on as I walk through this lifetime!
~ Monday, September 22 ~
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​The Finer Little Things Part 14

Something I just realized is that if someone truly cares about you and puts up with many disappointments from you, they are a keeper.
Of course the disappointments you’ll need to in time change those habits, but don’t make the mistake of letting go of someone who treats you like you’re their whole world.

Don’t let them go.


Even if the two of you remain as friends it’s okay because having a good friend walk with you through out life is better than not having one at all.

Or even if the two of you have feelings for one another and that forms into a relationship. Have patiences. Sometimes having that patiences is worth it in the end. Despite the countless minutes and hours and weeks it takes. When Faith thinks you’re ready, then the time has come that the two of you are ready to begin another chapter.

Don’t let them go.


-Steph
P.S. Sorry for my rambling [insert sweat drops]

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​The Finer Little Things Part 13


This weekend I went to the beach with some people that I went with last year (June 2013).  This year there were a few differences and I would only mention a couple of them. 


Firstly compared to last year I felt like it was a bit awkward to have a date at the beach. Don’t get me wrong! I love the beach and I think it’s one of the perfect couple dates to have! I say awkward is because during that time and a few months later, the guy that I like (who I’m with today) he and I were trying or testing to see if we can have a relationship. To me at that time, I felt like what we have is perfect and it was developing in a strong pathway. Karma and faith must have had a disagreement or a fight or something (but those sappy details can wait for another post). 


After 15ish months with some bumps and falls and storms and interesting plot twist and turns, I didn’t feel awkward with him. It was natural, we were ourselves, we talk about everything and anything that bothered us. It’s one of the most surreal feeling! *chuckles* I feel silly to say that it’s great to be able to share this year’s beach trip with him again. I am definitely looking forward for another one next year! XD


Another thing this year we were able to watch the sunset on the beach! And it’s the first sunset (on the beach) that I got to share with my guy! It was a great thing to experience with him and some other close friends. 


Overall, I’m glad I was able to spend the weekend with him and having an adventurous time. I say adventurous because we all explored, tried something new, and had a good time. 


~photo crd: Me (Steph1598pdx)
On Saturday, September 20th, 2014
~MUAH!!

​The Finer Little Things Part 13


This weekend I went to the beach with some people that I went with last year (June 2013). This year there were a few differences and I would only mention a couple of them.


Firstly compared to last year I felt like it was a bit awkward to have a date at the beach. Don’t get me wrong! I love the beach and I think it’s one of the perfect couple dates to have! I say awkward is because during that time and a few months later, the guy that I like (who I’m with today) he and I were trying or testing to see if we can have a relationship. To me at that time, I felt like what we have is perfect and it was developing in a strong pathway. Karma and faith must have had a disagreement or a fight or something (but those sappy details can wait for another post).


After 15ish months with some bumps and falls and storms and interesting plot twist and turns, I didn’t feel awkward with him. It was natural, we were ourselves, we talk about everything and anything that bothered us. It’s one of the most surreal feeling! *chuckles* I feel silly to say that it’s great to be able to share this year’s beach trip with him again. I am definitely looking forward for another one next year! XD


Another thing this year we were able to watch the sunset on the beach! And it’s the first sunset (on the beach) that I got to share with my guy! It was a great thing to experience with him and some other close friends.


Overall, I’m glad I was able to spend the weekend with him and having an adventurous time. I say adventurous because we all explored, tried something new, and had a good time.


~photo crd: Me (Steph1598pdx)
On Saturday, September 20th, 2014
~MUAH!!

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~ Thursday, September 18 ~
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i get way too sensitive when i get attached to someone. i can detect the slightest change in the tone of their voice, and suddenly i’m spending all day trying to figure out what i did wrong.
— humans of new york - amman, jordan (via 5000letters)

Gotta keep that communication! :)


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nickmiller:

You and me
is a place
I hope we
travel to
one day.
Once we go,
maybe
we’ll decide
to stay.

<3


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~ Wednesday, September 17 ~
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A Note on Love Songs
We broke up a month ago, and I didn’t even notice. A whole month has passed, and I think I moved so fast into the “date other people” mode, that I didn’t give myself enough time to mourn my relationship (and, to be honest, I think I’m already hung up on one of my practice date guys, but that’s another crappy drawing.)
Usually, I mope around for a few days, make playlists of sad songs, and stalk their social media accounts to make myself feel worse. But this time, I didn’t do any of that.
This is where you come in.  I’m looking for two kinds of songs:
1.  Breakup songs. Like sad, tear-my-heart-out-of-my-chest-and-stomp-on-it songs.  Think Taylor Swift, but with more feels (is that even possible?)
2.  Moving on songs.  I think I’ve moved on.  I’m dating other people.  I’m making out with them in cabs.  I think I’m over it, but I want to feel like I’m over it. Think Kelly Clarkson, just with more lady power.
Got a song in mind?

Ohhh them good ol&#8217; days when those little days were hard to go through as each passes by. Turning into a week and another and another and there goes a month&#8230; Aiya thankfully, I&#8217;m not in that stage /phase again because I was a sight for sore eyes and miserable. "Good things comes to those who wait"~ so I was the girl who&#8217;s heart got broken. I was the girl who has patiences and ended up being the girl who waited. I&#8217;m glad to say I am in a better place present time.

breakupnotes:

A Note on Love Songs

We broke up a month ago, and I didn’t even notice. A whole month has passed, and I think I moved so fast into the “date other people” mode, that I didn’t give myself enough time to mourn my relationship (and, to be honest, I think I’m already hung up on one of my practice date guys, but that’s another crappy drawing.)

Usually, I mope around for a few days, make playlists of sad songs, and stalk their social media accounts to make myself feel worse. But this time, I didn’t do any of that.

This is where you come in.  I’m looking for two kinds of songs:

1.  Breakup songs. Like sad, tear-my-heart-out-of-my-chest-and-stomp-on-it songs.  Think Taylor Swift, but with more feels (is that even possible?)

2.  Moving on songs.  I think I’ve moved on.  I’m dating other people.  I’m making out with them in cabs.  I think I’m over it, but I want to feel like I’m over it. Think Kelly Clarkson, just with more lady power.

Got a song in mind?

Ohhh them good ol’ days when those little days were hard to go through as each passes by. Turning into a week and another and another and there goes a month… Aiya thankfully, I’m not in that stage /phase again because I was a sight for sore eyes and miserable.

"Good things comes to those who wait"~ so I was the girl who’s heart got broken. I was the girl who has patiences and ended up being the girl who waited.
I’m glad to say I am in a better place present time.

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A Note on First Kisses
This note represents the hugs and kisses that have occurred on the three first dates I’ve been on.  X’s are hugs. O’s are kisses. Innovative, right?
In the past, I rarely kissed on first dates.  In fact, my ex and I didn’t kiss until our third date, which was my birthday party.  And even then, I don’t think we would have kissed if I wasn’t fueled by liquid courage in the form of many glasses pinot grigio.  I’m just a shy person, and I’m not one to kiss on the first date.
Or so I thought.
Date one kissed me in the middle of the date.  He didn’t even wait until the end, which is when television and movies say first kisses should happen.  He then kept kissing me, until the cab dropped him off.
Date two kissed me in the middle of the date, again, disregarding the end-of-the-night kiss tradition. (Who are these guys?!)  I didn’t think the date was going well, but he went for it, and you have to appreciate the effort.  We awkwardly hugged goodnight, because while I could appreciate the effort, I’m not that nice.
Date three.  This guy!  An awkward hug at the beginning, a friendly hug at the end.  This guy knows what’s up.  It actually made me want to kiss him.  I’m hoping for a second date with XX guy, just so I can.
And the heart?  The heart is for you, dear reader.  I loved every single one of your song recommendations and am so humbled by your Fan Mail.  You are so kind.  You are so sweet.  You are so loved.

💜😅😝😄

breakupnotes:

A Note on First Kisses

This note represents the hugs and kisses that have occurred on the three first dates I’ve been on.  X’s are hugs. O’s are kisses. Innovative, right?

In the past, I rarely kissed on first dates.  In fact, my ex and I didn’t kiss until our third date, which was my birthday party.  And even then, I don’t think we would have kissed if I wasn’t fueled by liquid courage in the form of many glasses pinot grigio.  I’m just a shy person, and I’m not one to kiss on the first date.

Or so I thought.

Date one kissed me in the middle of the date.  He didn’t even wait until the end, which is when television and movies say first kisses should happen.  He then kept kissing me, until the cab dropped him off.

Date two kissed me in the middle of the date, again, disregarding the end-of-the-night kiss tradition. (Who are these guys?!)  I didn’t think the date was going well, but he went for it, and you have to appreciate the effort.  We awkwardly hugged goodnight, because while I could appreciate the effort, I’m not that nice.

Date three.  This guy!  An awkward hug at the beginning, a friendly hug at the end.  This guy knows what’s up.  It actually made me want to kiss him.  I’m hoping for a second date with XX guy, just so I can.

And the heart?  The heart is for you, dear reader.  I loved every single one of your song recommendations and am so humbled by your Fan Mail.  You are so kind.  You are so sweet.  You are so loved.

💜😅😝😄


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~ Monday, September 15 ~
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The Finer Little Things Part 12

The child who fears wants to hold onto it as a reminder and to protect the precious organ…

The lady of the present doesn’t know which path to travel on. There’s always a new path appearing on this journey. To take a risk or remain scared? ….

The not-too-far-into-the-future lady of the present suggest the need to let go of the past and completely forget about it. For it’s depressing and agitating and up to no good…

The wise elder has seen all, but the future remains untold~

-Steph

Tags: paths thoughts poem journey in life
~ Saturday, September 13 ~
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Why do I feel like I didn&#8217;t get closure?
Why does it feel like I just reopened all of my wounds that I&#8217;ve stitched up well so far?

Oh wait, it&#8217;s because Harry Potter has been my childhood and in my life for 10-12 years!  

Lol xD

Why do I feel like I didn’t get closure?
Why does it feel like I just reopened all of my wounds that I’ve stitched up well so far?

Oh wait, it’s because Harry Potter has been my childhood and in my life for 10-12 years!

Lol xD

Tags: harrypotter lol
~ Thursday, September 11 ~
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The Finer Little Things Part 11

Closure. Honesty and closure.

Who knew it could still hurt so painfully after months later?

I may not be able to change the past or alter/suppress my memories or change the turn out of some things.

What does matter is that we learn to move on, to forgive, with the other half forget, and to remember that we live in the present day to help build the the future in our lives.

Stay strong lovelies,
MUAH!!
~ Steph

Tags: thoughts honesty no more tears for the past future forward keep moving forward